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 BlueBerry_Swisher
West Virginia Waltzin’
Registered: 12/19/10
Posts: 3,335
Loc: Carolina Swampland 
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 I hate to complain, but... 
#555757 - 05/15/11 01:59 PM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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My mother is so closed minded, anal retentive, sociopathic, ego busting, judgemental Christian, overbearing, annoying person ive ever met. Im sitting on my bed literally shaking in disbelief. How dare she insult me and my choices??? She chose to get married at 18, losing her youth, so therefore is jealous of my ability to be free and happy while im still young, and she uses that jealousy to torcher and bring down everything about me. Im so fucking sick. I just went away for the weekend, and being back here makes me grind my teeth in anger, knowing I have to sit here at 20 and have an 11 o clock curfew. Yes I know, her roof, her rules. But im still fucking PISSED!!!!!!
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Let food be thy medicine
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 SpaceMonkey
Mind Pilot
Registered: 02/09/09
Posts: 3,471
Loc: Hawaiian Islands
Last seen: 5 years, 8 months
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Time to fly the coop!
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 Don't Mistake My Kindness For Weakness
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RasJeph
Psycho Pete
Registered: 01/14/09
Posts: 11,657
Loc: Bumfuckt Egypt
Last seen: 2 years, 5 months
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And I thought my mom was still bad 
I'm sorry to hear that.
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Of course it's happening inside your head.
Why should that mean it isn't real?
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Big_tiggy
Registered: 05/07/08
Posts: 1,178
Loc: Neither here nor there
Last seen: 14 years, 25 days
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I feel for ya, my mom can get on my nerves 2, just stop thinkin about it and maybe try to show your mom your responsible in your actions... its no good for anyone to be angry, even if she is doesnt mean you have to be
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Manitou
Indépendantiste
Registered: 05/03/11 
Posts: 7,209
Loc: Québecédelic
Last seen: 2 days, 22 hours
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Mine used to be like that, but when she started reading the essays I was writing while I was high for school, or my drawing, she stopped worrying 
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Pour un instant, j'ai respiré très fort
Ça m'a permis de visiter mon corps
Des inconnus vivent en roi chez moi
Moi qui avait accepté leurs lois
J'ai perdu mon temps à gagner du temps
J'ai besoin de me trouver une histoire à me conter
Pour instant j'ai oublié mon nom
Harmonium - Pour un instant
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Tangerines
Grease Wizard
Registered: 04/20/08
Posts: 9,497
Last seen: 7 years, 10 months
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Get a job and move out...
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BlueBerry_Swisher
West Virginia Waltzin’
Registered: 12/19/10
Posts: 3,335
Loc: Carolina Swampland
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 Re: I hate to complain, but... [Re: Tangerines]
#555789 - 05/15/11 03:26 PM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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Ive got a job. And I pay for my car insurance, cellphone, and food right now. I cant imagine rent and utilities on top of all that.
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Let food be thy medicine
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Tangerines
Grease Wizard
Registered: 04/20/08
Posts: 9,497
Last seen: 7 years, 10 months
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Need better job. 
I can't see you staying there doing any good for you mentally and I would make it the number one priority to get out while you still can!
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BlueBerry_Swisher
West Virginia Waltzin’
Registered: 12/19/10
Posts: 3,335
Loc: Carolina Swampland
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Re: I hate to complain, but... [Re: Tangerines]
#555794 - 05/15/11 03:36 PM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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It is my number one priority, but rent is expensive. Im trying to find roommates.
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Let food be thy medicine
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Tangerines
Grease Wizard
Registered: 04/20/08
Posts: 9,497
Last seen: 7 years, 10 months
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Yea roommates can be key though living with them sucks sometimes. Good luck though sounds like hell having a curfew at 11. Fuck that. Get another job that works nights then you can be like look mah look!
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Blackstatis
Stranger
Registered: 02/28/10
Posts: 129
Last seen: 12 years, 7 months
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Re: I hate to complain, but... [Re: Tangerines]
#555800 - 05/15/11 03:48 PM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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11 at 20... oof
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djnoktirnal
ponderer
Registered: 04/23/11
Posts: 47
Loc: South
Last seen: 5 years, 9 months
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Re: I hate to complain, but... [Re: Blackstatis]
#555805 - 05/15/11 04:02 PM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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I feel ya man, I had the same kinda thing when I lived w/ my parents.
the thing is.... It's her place, she pays for rent and utilities. She has the right to make the rules. It sucks, but that's life. When I moved out on my own, I made my own rules. Learned a little more about responsibilty. My relationship with my parents is much better, mainly becuase now I can be honest with them without fear of punishment.
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nothing i have said or done is real. I like to make up stories and post them on the internet. I have nothing better to do.
  
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FurrowedBrow
Free yourself from yourself
Registered: 04/20/08
Posts: 12,045
Loc: Carpal Tunnel
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Re: I hate to complain, but... [Re: djnoktirnal] 1
#555807 - 05/15/11 04:05 PM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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you could offer to pay her rent, in exchange for a bit more freedom.
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BlueBerry_Swisher
West Virginia Waltzin’
Registered: 12/19/10
Posts: 3,335
Loc: Carolina Swampland
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Re: I hate to complain, but... [Re: FurrowedBrow]
#555809 - 05/15/11 04:09 PM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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 midnight is all I ask
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Picklez
Registered: 04/20/08
Posts: 17,919
Last seen: 11 years, 10 months
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I am soo glad I dont live at home any more, my mom is/was the same way with me. I am 23 and she still treats me like I am 15. Part of it is my own fault for the trouble I have gotten myself into and the substance abuse problems I have had and still have but it definitely gets old.
As the others have recommended, get yourself a better job or try to start saving more money and find yourself your own place. Or if you have other family members maybe try moving in with one of them. I am living with my uncle right now and I have much more freedom (basically no rules except I am not allowed to have people over, which I dont anyways)
Just keep your head up man. Things will get better
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King Koopa
Natty
Registered: 06/25/08
Posts: 12,819
Last seen: 1 year, 6 months
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A7X said:
midnight is all I ask
lol
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BlueBerry_Swisher
West Virginia Waltzin’
Registered: 12/19/10
Posts: 3,335
Loc: Carolina Swampland
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Re: I hate to complain, but... [Re: King Koopa]
#555823 - 05/15/11 05:00 PM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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I was gonna move in with my best friend, but she is now moved in with this guy shes been seeing for two weeks 
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Manitou
Indépendantiste
Registered: 05/03/11
Posts: 7,209
Loc: Québecédelic
Last seen: 2 days, 22 hours
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A7X said:
I was gonna move in with my best friend, but she is now moved in with this guy shes been seeing for two weeks
Dude my buddy did the same shit to me, but with a girl instead of a guy... thats so lame ...
Though, the rent idea for freedom ain't a bad idea at all
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Pour un instant, j'ai respiré très fort
Ça m'a permis de visiter mon corps
Des inconnus vivent en roi chez moi
Moi qui avait accepté leurs lois
J'ai perdu mon temps à gagner du temps
J'ai besoin de me trouver une histoire à me conter
Pour instant j'ai oublié mon nom
Harmonium - Pour un instant
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Picklez
Registered: 04/20/08
Posts: 17,919
Last seen: 11 years, 10 months
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A7X said:
I was gonna move in with my best friend, but she is now moved in with this guy shes been seeing for two weeks
wow, stupid women. I hope for your friends sake it works out, but after only dating for 2 weeks, that's crazy.
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BlueBerry_Swisher
West Virginia Waltzin’
Registered: 12/19/10
Posts: 3,335
Loc: Carolina Swampland
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Re: I hate to complain, but... [Re: Picklez]
#555838 - 05/15/11 06:06 PM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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shes an idiot, yup 
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