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Girlfriend problems.
    #446537 - 07/15/10 03:30 AM (6 years, 4 months ago)

so my girlfriend told me to stop smoking weed beacause its ilegal.  i sad no.
Now she says im choosing marijuana over her and making a big deal out of this.
i dont want to  stop just because its ilegal, i told her to tell me to quit when she has a good reason, cause fuck that im not gonna quit just cause its ilegal. i mean what if my religion was ilegal, id still fucking practice it. ITs not interfering with my life at all, and i only do it a couple of times a month if even that.
what do you think growery?


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Re: Girlfriend problems. [Re: iStoner]
    #446538 - 07/15/10 03:30 AM (6 years, 4 months ago)

i really love this girl too, so its not like just some chick.


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Re: Girlfriend problems. [Re: iStoner]
    #446547 - 07/15/10 04:40 AM (6 years, 4 months ago)

If this ever happened to me I would leave her man. Weed and drugs are a HUGE part of my life, not just doing them  but researching, and discussing them with other people too. It seems like she can't respect your decision to smoke, and is trying to force you to give it up for her, thats pretty selfish and I wouldn't be suprised if she attempted this for other issues in your relationship as well.

And If I was you I wouldn't attempt hiding the fact that you smoke either, because if you can't be honest about who you really are to your own girlfriend you just weren't meant to be together.
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Re: Girlfriend problems. [Re: volcomstoner]
    #446553 - 07/15/10 06:02 AM (6 years, 4 months ago)

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volcomstoner said:And If I was you I wouldn't attempt hiding the fact that you smoke either, because if you can't be honest about who you really are to your own girlfriend you just weren't meant to be together.
:2cents:




Some solid truth there.

My girlfriend asked me to stop smoking a while back, and I just blatantly told her that's pretty much just not an option, though I agreed to not partake in the smoke (at least as much) while she was around. That was a few months ago and since that she has even started smoking with me, only joints and not very often at all, but its a start.

I actually just had to roll up 4g's into joints because she is taking 3 of her friends down to the beach for the weekend and they are going to try it for the first time themselves.

Just try to not smoke around her and maybe even suggest she tries it with you when she's comfortable :shrug: I have found its only brought me and my girlfriend closer since she has discovered its not as bad as she thought.


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Re: Girlfriend problems. [Re: iStoner]
    #446558 - 07/15/10 07:39 AM (6 years, 4 months ago)

Sounds like a controlling bitch you want no part of.


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Re: Girlfriend problems. [Re: iStoner]
    #446560 - 07/15/10 07:47 AM (6 years, 4 months ago)

you could asked her to do some research, maybe then she will understand its really not that big of a deal. :shrug: belive it or not i actually used to think weed was a bad thing:facepalm: untill i did my own research.


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Re: Girlfriend problems. [Re: iStoner]
    #446621 - 07/15/10 11:28 AM (6 years, 4 months ago)

If she really loves you she'll accept you for who you are. Or DSHSB.


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Re: Girlfriend problems. [Re: FRACTALife]
    #446634 - 07/15/10 12:03 PM (6 years, 4 months ago)

Drugs > Love


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Re: Girlfriend problems. [Re: DungenessDank]
    #446690 - 07/15/10 02:41 PM (6 years, 4 months ago)

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DungenessDank said:
Sounds like a controlling bitch you want no part of.




you always put the words in my mouth


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niteowl said:
See, that term pedo gets thrown around a lot.
Is a 16 year old guy having sex w/a 16 year old girl a pedophile?
If not, then how is a 30 year old considered a pedophile for doing the same thing?
I think y'all need to look up the definition for pedophile.


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Re: Girlfriend problems. [Re: iStoner]
    #446700 - 07/15/10 02:52 PM (6 years, 4 months ago)

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iStoner said:
i really love this girl too, so its not like just some chick.




I agree with everyone else here.  If she can't respect human rights that are fundamental to being human then I would try to educate her.  If she's thick headed and still doesn't understand it's to the curb ya go.  I'm sorry but like most people here, drugs (not necessarily doing them) are a huge part of my life.  Someone that says don't do pot cause it's illegal isn't terrible.  I mean if you have kids and are growing pot in your basement where it's not legal you are taking a huge risk, not just for yourself but for your family too.  That goes for smoking it too, but to a smaller extent.  Just keep it separate.  But ultimately, tell that chick that you prefer dangerous freedom over a peaceful slavery.  Also give her the mckenna quote, "if the words life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness don't include the right to experiment with your own consciousness, then the declaration of independence isn't worth the hemp it was written on." 

This is an education issue.  Print out this post and give it to her and tell her to do some research on it.

https://www.growery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/209636/fpart/1

and show her the flick called, Grass with W. Harrelson's narration.  That's a good vid that'll show the history of pot prohibition correctly.


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Re: Girlfriend problems. [Re: FurrowedBrow]
    #446702 - 07/15/10 02:54 PM (6 years, 4 months ago)

FB

i knew i loved you for a reason


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niteowl said:
See, that term pedo gets thrown around a lot.
Is a 16 year old guy having sex w/a 16 year old girl a pedophile?
If not, then how is a 30 year old considered a pedophile for doing the same thing?
I think y'all need to look up the definition for pedophile.


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Re: Girlfriend problems. [Re: still beLIEve]
    #446716 - 07/15/10 03:05 PM (6 years, 4 months ago)

A lil compromise can't hurt....hell if she really loves you she'll meet you half way and if you love her like you say you do then cuttin back shouldn't even be a question.  But if you really only smoke a few times a month she shouldn't care. I just wouldn't light up around her. Sounds like she just needs to read some REAL un-biased literature on mj.


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Re: Girlfriend problems. [Re: FRACTALife]
    #446752 - 07/15/10 04:42 PM (6 years, 4 months ago)

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FRACTALife said:
If she really loves you she'll accept you for who you are. Or DSHSB.




Words of wisdom.


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Re: Girlfriend problems. [Re: Harlz]
    #446808 - 07/15/10 09:14 PM (6 years, 4 months ago)

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Tripp420 said:
Quote:

FRACTALife said:
If she really loves you she'll accept you for who you are. Or DSHSB.




Words of wisdom.



:feelsgoodman:
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FurrowedBrow said:
Quote:

iStoner said:
i really love this girl too, so its not like just some chick.




I agree with everyone else here.  If she can't respect human rights that are fundamental to being human then I would try to educate her.  If she's thick headed and still doesn't understand it's to the curb ya go.  I'm sorry but like most people here, drugs (not necessarily doing them) are a huge part of my life.  Someone that says don't do pot cause it's illegal isn't terrible.  I mean if you have kids and are growing pot in your basement where it's not legal you are taking a huge risk, not just for yourself but for your family too.  That goes for smoking it too, but to a smaller extent.  Just keep it separate.  But ultimately, tell that chick that you prefer dangerous freedom over a peaceful slavery.  Also give her the mckenna quote, "if the words life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness don't include the right to experiment with your own consciousness, then the declaration of independence isn't worth the hemp it was written on." 

This is an education issue.  Print out this post and give it to her and tell her to do some research on it.

https://www.growery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/209636/fpart/1

and show her the flick called, Grass with W. Harrelson's narration.  That's a good vid that'll show the history of pot prohibition correctly.



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Harlz said:
Drugs > Love





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Re: Girlfriend problems. [Re: FRACTALife]
    #446867 - 07/16/10 12:35 AM (6 years, 4 months ago)

If you  are goona quit smoking, do it for yourself. Not cause a girl told you too. If she loves you then she will accept it. That doesn't mean she has to like it, but accept it because that's you.


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Re: Girlfriend problems. [Re: Jeff Funk]
    #446868 - 07/16/10 12:36 AM (6 years, 4 months ago)

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Jeff Funk said:
If you  are goona quit smoking, do it for yourself. Not cause a girl told you too. If she loves you then she will accept it. That doesn't mean she has to like it, but accept it because that's you.





Jeff brings the funk.  He's right too.


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Re: Girlfriend problems. [Re: FarBeyondDriven]
    #446876 - 07/16/10 12:58 AM (6 years, 4 months ago)

yeah i got what you guys are saying, and i told her this.
I made her quit drugs a while back, but thats because she was mad addicted to painkillers and pills. shed take like 15 vicodin at a time, and not feel much. it started to control her. she still says that if i get to smoke weed, then she can do pills and im like fuck that your gonna OD.


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Re: Girlfriend problems. [Re: iStoner]
    #446881 - 07/16/10 01:03 AM (6 years, 4 months ago)

She's trying to control you. And if she's gonna use her addictive habits has a pawn then you don't need that. Pills hurt the body way more than some weed. I use mj to keep from taking my pain killers.


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Re: Girlfriend problems. [Re: Jeff Funk]
    #446883 - 07/16/10 01:05 AM (6 years, 4 months ago)

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Jeff Funk said:
She's trying to control you. And if she's gonna use her addictive habits has a pawn then you don't need that. Pills hurt the body way more than some pills. I use mj to keep from taking my pain killers.




Whatchu smokin on brotha????:lol:


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Re: Girlfriend problems. [Re: Jeff Funk]
    #446887 - 07/16/10 01:08 AM (6 years, 4 months ago)

i know dude, shes not all that bad though.
i try to talk some sence into her. i told her im more than happy to let her try weed.
and if i get ahold of mushrooms, id let her try those too.
I got ahold of some dank ass bud once, im sure it was sativa. best shit ever had and she thought she was dieing. so i need to get her an indica.


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