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Offlineyellownotepad
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having a girlfriend who smokes weed
    #97624 - 07/30/08 12:48 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

now the common thing when you have a girlfriend is that you pay for a lot of stuff.  whether you agree or disagree, it is common and accepted.  a new dimension on this though is when that girlfriend smokes weed.

how do you handle that?  i pick up sacks that basically are for my girlfriend (i smoke very rarely) every now and then.  but last night we went with two friends of mine to grab a gram at 1am, i chipped in for half of it (basically for her sake because she didnt have any money on her) and this morning when i get up for work, i weighed out the shake that was left, not even .1 grams! 

what do you guys think is the appropriate way to handle that situation?  bite the bullet and not leave sacks alone with her?  demand sexual favors? 

and how do you all go about being a nice boyfriend when your girlfriend smokes weed (or does other drugs for that matter) ?


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Re: having a girlfriend who smokes weed [Re: yellownotepad]
    #97627 - 07/30/08 12:52 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

well i bet you she will be like "I thought you never really smoked so i thougt you woundn't  care" which is a fat lie shes a huge stoner....

and how to handle it, just be like WTF! biatch thats my shake you smked, go get me another sack *slap.


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Re: having a girlfriend who smokes weed [Re: yellownotepad]
    #97628 - 07/30/08 12:52 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

If my girl wants drugs (including weed), she has to pay for that herself.

I don't want her on drugs anyway, unless she's doing it with me at the time.


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Re: having a girlfriend who smokes weed [Re: yellownotepad]
    #97629 - 07/30/08 12:52 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Step one.  Grow a set of testicles.


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Re: having a girlfriend who smokes weed [Re: yellownotepad]
    #97631 - 07/30/08 12:54 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

demand sexual favors.


drysmash it.


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Re: having a girlfriend who smokes weed [Re: Hanky]
    #97632 - 07/30/08 12:55 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

i'd smoke her up for free ocasionally but def not everytime...make her buy her own budz


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Re: having a girlfriend who smokes weed [Re: yellownotepad]
    #97635 - 07/30/08 12:58 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

You're basically fucked.  Because you've set the precedent of buying her weed and putting up with her smoking the lot, she's always going to expect the same.  If you change now she's going to lose interest fast.  You are just a source of free drugs and money.

Next time to start a relationship, set down the ground rules RIGHT FROM THE START!  You cant move the goal posts, women won't tolerate it.


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Re: having a girlfriend who smokes weed [Re: JollyGreenJRayV]
    #97637 - 07/30/08 12:59 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

yeah i think drysmashing the shitbox will be the preliminary punishment.    i'm at work.  if i'm lucky she'll still be sleeping at my apt when i get home from work. and i found the 2gig card for my treo so a video will definitely be in order. element of surprise FTW.


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Re: having a girlfriend who smokes weed [Re: Hanky]
    #97641 - 07/30/08 01:03 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Hanky said:
You're basically fucked.  Because you've set the precedent of buying her weed and putting up with her smoking the lot, she's always going to expect the same.  If you change now she's going to lose interest fast.  You are just a source of free drugs and money.

Next time to start a relationship, set down the ground rules RIGHT FROM THE START!  You cant move the goal posts, women won't tolerate it.




no dont get me wrong, she buys her buds probably 75% of the time.  and when i do buy sacks, they stay with me.  its just this time i was expecting to have some weed left over and all thats there is fucking shake.  i guess i can blame my roommate and friend, but still. 

i think drysmashing it is my best option.


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Re: having a girlfriend who smokes weed [Re: yellownotepad]
    #97644 - 07/30/08 01:04 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Just tell her not to smoke your stuff without you, she will understand since you paid for it.


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Re: having a girlfriend who smokes weed [Re: bananatelephone]
    #97725 - 07/30/08 01:55 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

talk to her. cuz thats fucked up.


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See, that term pedo gets thrown around a lot.
Is a 16 year old guy having sex w/a 16 year old girl a pedophile?
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I think y'all need to look up the definition for pedophile.


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Re: having a girlfriend who smokes weed [Re: still beLIEve]
    #97929 - 07/30/08 03:39 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

are you really that upset over something like $10?  which you spent on your girlfriend anyway?


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Re: having a girlfriend who smokes weed [Re: Yrat]
    #97932 - 07/30/08 03:40 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

You could ban him for being a jewbag.  :yesnod:


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Re: having a girlfriend who smokes weed [Re: Hanky]
    #97948 - 07/30/08 03:47 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

:strokebeard:


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Re: having a girlfriend who smokes weed [Re: Hanky]
    #97952 - 07/30/08 03:50 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Hanky said:
You could ban him for being a jewbag.  :yesnod:




thats my sisters nickname for some reason...Her name is Julia...then goes to Jewlia, then Jewbag....her friends are lame


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Re: having a girlfriend who smokes weed [Re: bananatelephone]
    #98003 - 07/30/08 04:15 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

nah its not the 10 bucks.  im over it, it was just annoying to wake up in the morning expecting weed, and find a little pile of shake.  :crankey:


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Re: having a girlfriend who smokes weed [Re: yellownotepad]
    #98068 - 07/30/08 05:21 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Ok without being a dick be like I was lookin for a little bowl this morn so in the future I'd appreciate if you wouldnt cash the stash.

Don't even mention money and if she brings it up say you dont care about the cash. But if you pitch you'd like to see a little bit.



on the flipside: if she's being a huge stoner and you pay for even 25% of that it adds up and you should consider ending the relationship.


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Re: having a girlfriend who smokes weed [Re: ezKiel]
    #99227 - 07/31/08 07:26 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

or just butts3x0rz her


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Re: having a girlfriend who smokes weed [Re: freepain]
    #102821 - 08/04/08 11:02 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Shit....me and my lady never have probs with bud or "drugs" in general....

We will typically go through about 3.5g a week between the two of us...We buy two 1.7g sacks a week average, sometimes she pays for it all, sometimes i do. And sometimes we go ends on it. Same thing when we buy E here and there, we each drop what we can or who ever can afford it at the time.....Works nicely for the two of us, so even if one of us doesn't have the money we always have bud. And regardless of who paid what, it is "our" weed not just hers or mine, we can each smoke the amount we want....

And a benefit of having a lady and smoking, we can give each other our hits (recycle the hit, what ever you want to call it), this really conserves bud....


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Re: having a girlfriend who smokes weed [Re: openmind]
    #102826 - 08/04/08 11:08 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

I never had a girlfriend that done or has did drugs...

Weird isnt it?


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